Start with some Grandma time on a blanket in the sun.
She'll listen to everything you have to say.
Since you love rocks, use them as decorations and weights for a stack of napkins or fly-away tablecloths.
Make sure you serve angel food cake with peach sauce. Everyone will come to the party, for sure.
Sometimes it's too windy and the candles won't stay lit. It's okay if your mom just lights one candle and you blow it out very quickly.
The last step is to enjoy your cake and be loved by those that love.